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I'll read anything Alex writes, and (bonus!) he led me to your awesome Substack, Valorie! Very excited to read more rejections!

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YESSSS THE PLAN IS WORKING ALL THE COOL PEOPLE ARE MEETING EACH OTHER!!!

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Alex thinks I’m cool! This made my day :)

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I love this interview especially "just bite the bread normally." I feel like that wisdom can be applied to just about anything in life. And the acting world sounds a lot like the writing world: rife with rejection. I don't think people in other fields can begin to understand what this feels like! Yet, eventually, it becomes a normal part of the flow of our lives! Hah. Looking forward to seeing you in your upcoming roles and, of course, reading more Both Are True!

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haha omg Jane - "just bite the bread normally" as a motto for life is genius! Thank you as always for being so great 😁

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this is great!

big alex fan.

some things i love from this:

-- acceptance is the exception

-- Don't listen to anything they say and just bite the bread normally

-- the rest of it

even though it was framed as a rejection story, i was really hoping it would end with getting the part. i'm glad alex got the part of alex.

thanks all!

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dawwww myq

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Luckily I don’t get judged by how I bite into a piece of bread or I’d lose my mind. My nephews an actor too, Juilliard and the rejection he deals with; but he’s so upbeat. I could never deal with that amount of rejection.

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I CANNOT DEAL EITHER HELP ME KAY

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When I showed my art a lot I saved my rejection letters and five years later I created an installation called, Let it Rain. I hung them from filament and netting from the ceiling. I discovered I didn't have enough letters and wrote some more. Ha! In a way you used the negative of the rejection the same way, turned it into a positive, a piece of art (your writing). Maybe that's as good as it's going to get. I used to tell myself I was lucky to be able to do my art and that many people didn't have the opportunity to even pursue something they loved. I'm pretty impressed that you write and act, wow!

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Ahhhh thank you this is awesome!!

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Thank YOU, this was such a fun interview!

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Love this post!

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